Thursday, April 16, 2009

News

I have debated about posting our upcoming news. I have thought about it and thought about it. I have concerns due to I know that some of the people that might want to cause trouble used to read my blog but you know what.. I really don't care. I am excited and happy about it and want to share it here with people I care about and with people I have come to care about through my blog and Ron's ..

OK no more beating around the bush.

Ron and I have been talking about it for a while now. With Kyle and Chelsea's consent and with the acceptance and consent of all of the kids Ron will be adopting my kids. He will be adopting Kyle and Chelsea. Even though she is 18 she wants him to adopt her too.. and that is fine with him. This is just something we all want. I don't know how long the process takes but I understand that it isn't that long or that expensive when it is a step parent adoption and when there is no need to have parental rights terminated. As the kids biological father is deceased there will be no need of any of the usual legal steps.

My kids will always love and remember their biological father, they will always consider him "daddy" but they have a wonderful relationship with Ron and although this adoption is in no way necessary to solidify the relationship they have with him it is something that we all want.

We would in no way prevent them from contact with any members of their father's biological family that they want to be in contact with. I know they want to still see their papaw and they will of course still be able to do that. They will also still have the large extended family they have had since Ron and I got married. Nothing will change in any of that.

Just thought I would share that with y'all.. When things get moving I will keep y'all updated and when the big day arrives I will definitely let everyone in on the celebration.

Y'all have fun

5 comments:

Willow Tree said...

CONGRATULATIONS! That's wonderful, beautiful, really. I'm so happy for all of you.

Blessings, Carolynn

Gill said...

OMGOMGOMG that s WONDERFUL news! I am so pleased for ALL of you! What an awesome man you have there ;) Tammy - stuff those that may not be happy for you! I am delighted. You made me smile today and it's a big one! LOL
Congrats to you all. Hugs to everyone. OMG! Too cool!

Retro Girl said...

This is wonderful happy joyous news!! God bless all of you!
***HUGS****

Debbie said...

Tammy, that is such great news! I am so happy to hear this. Congrats to the whole family.

TammyJ said...

Thank you all for your words of congradulations and your happiness for our family. It means a lot to all of us.

Thank you so much

Tammy